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Now that my graduation is fast approaching, my close friends are already teasing me about the possibility of getting married soon. According to them, I no longer need to find work or proceed with a post-graduate study because my current guy can take good care of me in case we would be settling down together after college.
Whenever they say these things, I always respond with a smile and explain to them that spending the rest of my life with the person I love is one of my ultimate dreams. However, planning my own wedding is not yet on the list of my priorities. But it is never too early to save up for the honeymoon by finding a good Orbitz coupon.
As of the moment, we want to enjoy life to the fullest and make the best out of it. We do not need to bind ourselves in marriage at a very young age because we still have many dreams to fulfill and opportunities to explore.
congrats to your nalalapit na graduation, al! 🙂 you're right, you don't have to rush on getting married. you're both still young with lots of things ahead of you. you'll know it when the right time comes 🙂
Certainly hindi ngayon ate KM. Oo nga, ang bata ko pa kaya. lol Ayoko ko pa ngang mag21 eh. Gusto ko 20 lang always 🙂
You have both romantic and sensible standpoint regarding entering the sanctity of marriage, I admire that.
My advance best wishes on your graduation.
Oh, to answer your question I am binded with the person, I greatly admire. 🙂
Congrats on graduating sis! 🙂 And yes, better enjoy life first before settling down. I've always dreamed of having my perfect wedding, but like you, ayoko pa rin muna.. XD
hahah it's funny that i also somehow equate marriage and graduation =))
Before I said want to get married at the right time. Is there ever a right age or time of life to get married? Age is just a number. So I got married at the age of 25. But I realized maturity is the necessary key when it comes to getting married. Hirap pag mejo isip bata pa yung partner. So you're right, enjoy life to the fullest and make the best out of it.
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later ka na! ako muna! hahahaha
Algene!
in your wedding day, i promise to be there na talaga..i missed your debut!that was sad! siguraduhin mo lng na di ako busy ha?LOL..
basta..ako muna!hehehe!! mmmmwuah!
~ate gagay~
Aw! About those tips of hiring a wedding planner etc, Hindi para sakin. Lol! I was married that I did all the planning myself. Surreal! From the things to do, preparation, budgeting I did all that! And then working pa ko at the same time! It was so tiring and stressful, but you know it turned out great! Pati Kasi ceremony Ako ang nakialam. Lol! We can do that in our church ksi.
But anyway, yes don't rush dear Algene. You haven't tasted the happiness that life brings lalo na when you already have a job and enjoys your salary. Ay! Ako super na enjoy ko yan. Nakapunta ko sa mga lugarna di ko pa napuntahan. So Ajah! And soooo happy for u! Graduating na ang baby!
We don't rush into a wedding.enjoy life as a single first.I had 2 simple wedding .the first one was a muslim wedding and the 2nd one biglaan lang din .no wedding planner.
Marriage is something to be taken seriously, enjoy muna yung pagigigng single.
I think you should still try to pursue a career… relationships doesn't always last… even married couples can break up… having a career will guarantee your future…
Good. Better to wait than plunge into something prematurely. Ika nga ni Janet Jackson, "Let's wait awhile…." :))
In my case, I'm not the marrying type though I've been in the same relationship for 16 years now. And it's a monogamous relationship. 🙂
I agree! enjoy life first before getting married. 🙂 Travel around the world perhaps? haha! 🙂 People say it's hard to do that already especially when you have kids 🙂
Ouch! Sakit! Di pa ako graduating this March. Congrats pala
Congrats, gagraduate ka na 🙂 maganda yang naisipan nyo, enjoy life muna, and dapat ang pagsesettle down, pinagiisipan 🙂
followed your blog, congrats! you'd be graduating soon! hope you could follow back 😀
congrats!!! I am a single mom..wish ko lang na makilala ko na rin si right guy..but so far I had no plan of getting married..kasi la naman akong BF! hahaha..
Kidding aside wedding is one of the most memorable event in a womans life..
It's beautiful to be in love. However, it comes with responsibility and maturity. You cannot just get married and file annulment the next day. You have so much to look forward to. Life after college is definitely the most challenging but exceptionally exciting time of your life. You still have a lot to share to the world alone. When you're married, you don't have the right to just think about yourself. You will be a wife and your priorities will change. Enjoy your life first. If boyfie truly loves you, he will definitely wait until you're ready. 🙂 Goodluck.
In a relationship, but it's quite difficult for us to plan the future. He's in Vienna. I'm here.
Praying for a fruitful relationship for both of you.
Congratulations! 🙂 I used to think of settling down after graduation but the relationship ended badly so I guess I was thankful that we didn't rush into it? There's still a lot more to life and things to do while not married yet.. (Not that being married is a bad thing).
That's right Gene! Bata ka pa, madami pa opportunities na naghihintay sayo. Just make the most of your single life first. Enjoy your youth first. Getting married is not just about the financial security. It's also about the emotional and mental preparedness. So just wait for the right time. 🙂
wow, congratulations on your graduation! Fresh out of college, you're definitely too young to get married! Take your time. Enjoy life! One of the best years of your life is just starting… being young and single, and earning your own money! Good luck! 🙂
Congrats on your upcoming graduation! And also don't rush into getting married right away but if you do I know you'll be happy with it and best wishes to you and your future husband. 😀
Congratulations! Of course para yo sa graduation mo. I'm sure next time na i-congratulate kita, it will be for your wedding.
There's a time for everything. Marriage can wait. Make your life stable muna :))
at napaso ako sa topic ehe\
at nanghina ako sa topic..ehe
Naks! COngratulations sa graduation mo! 😀 And next time naman, sana maka comment ulit ako.. kami.. ng congratulations, para sa wedding. Ayiii!! hehehe..
Kelan nga ba? XD Take your time muna.. No need to rush things. 🙂
This is unsolicited advice. Since you mention that life is full of uncertainties and no one knows what lies ahead in the future. I think it's better to plan it well in the present so that you're prepared for whatever uncertainties my happen in the long run. Since you're sure that your present BF is the right person for you, why not settle it the soonest possible time. Before anything else turns into awry.
Congrats! welcome to the working world! enjoy life!
Wedding right after graduation? Nah! Definitely not a good idea. Marriage is something that you can't escape when you feel you don't like it anymore. Graduation shouldn't be a basis of it because the school of life just kicks off during this time. You are still young and you have to enjoy what it can offer while you are still single. Enjoy your freedom to do whatever you want to or go wherever you desire.
It's a big world out there for you to explore. Do so and treat them as your many weapons in leaping into a new one. Congratulations on your graduation!
take time to enjoy the corporate world and do things as single before getting married at least you will not have more "what ifs" in life…
I think you should explore the non-student life as a single person. Iba din kasi yung may experienced ka on your own. That's just me ha. Kasi di mo naman kelangan madaliin yung marriage 🙂
don't get married yet. do the things you want to do first. travel. reach for your dreams.
there's a whole lifetime waiting for you to settle down and have a family.
Marriage is not a race. It will come in the right time. For me it would be great to enjoy life first being single and free from commitments esp. marriage.
Hi Ma'am congratulations to your upcoming graduation. I guess every couple would want to have a dream wedding, including myself. But I prefer to have budget wedding since Kuripot po ako… 🙂